DATE YOUR TYPE : You've to be able to discover who you're before you can make or know your type . Make friends with the one who shares the same ideology with you.
RESPECT YOUR PARTNER: Respect in this sense doesn't implies calling or giving your partner names like daddy,mummy,brother or sister. Where on earth is that even welcomed. What is expected of you when respect is involved is knowing when you're needed around and when you ought to give space when the need be.
DON'T BE A NAG: This is so much associated with the females. It might be hard to ignore what you detest in your partner but it's better you make your dissatisfaction known in a more friendly approach. We all have our good time,study and know when he or she is likely to understand your plight without bearing any further arguments or misunderstanding.
DON'T TELL LIES: No matter how bitter the truth might be don't tell lies. Try to be honest and truthful,it will of course earn you more respect and honour when your partner can actually vouch for you in your absence or presence.
SECRECY: This is a dreadful element in relationship. It is a poison as many would call it. This is not related to telling lies as you can find a very truthful partner still hiding somethings he or she might felt when his or her partner knows about could bear uproar. I'll advice whatever it's ,big or small never keep it as a secret .
MAKE YOUR DECISION: Relationship is all about the two parties coming together to reach an agreement or a common decision. Talk,dialogue and reason together. Your partner should be your best friend. So make sure you follow the first rule.
DON'T PLY HIS OR HER PHONE: This shouldn't be misconceived to be keeping secret . It's a known fact that you might want to keep somethings to yourself . It could be about their family,business or career. Whatever it's they want to keep while seeking refuge with their phone. Don't ply.
APPRECIATION: Whenever you find a thing or the other you love or admire in your partner,don't keep it to yourself. Make him or her see reason they should continue doing it. Don't be like"if I tell him,he might begin to see himself". That's not what love is about. Appreciate yourselves it strengthens love.
GIFT: It saddens me to see that in this part of the world we've only taken the male gender as the giver and the female folks as the recipients. It shouldn't be like that. Whether it's the male or female lets learn to give,assist and support each other. It could a surprise package ,don't make the men get tired.
BE A GOOD LOVER: I've heard most ladies say "i love him but I won't show it to him". I don't know what your reasons are but trust me you're mistaken. It makes no sense to hide one true feelings.
DON'T COMPARE:The way your relationship will work might differs from others. So don't compare yours with that of your friend's or family. Treat your partner the way you would love to be treated.
These are just few out of the tips to sustain one's relationship.
Join me again next week for some other tips.
"It's a good thing to love and to be loved"
